sub)4년차 부부의 연말 큐앤에이♥

sub)4년차 부부의 연말 큐앤에이♥

Can you stay like that until the end? Hello, I am Ban Chae-young. [(He’s doing it again)] As the year comes to an end, there is something our you say every time. That is, you should do an end of year QnA. So this time, as I was preparing for it and collecting questions,

There were no questions at all. [King of communication] Because we communicate with them a lot. I guess you don’t have anything that you don’t know about, right? So, as I was gathering questions, [Thought a lot about this shoot] I was like this video isn’t going to work out, is it? But,

I put a lot of effort to collect them to try and film this video. After one year, we’re together like this… No nevermind, we filmed our self wedding in the middle. However, we are sitting together in the night like this after several months. Hello, I am Ban Chae-young.

[(Worried)] You don’t seem energetic today, no? Did you lose your senses? I feel quite awkward. Should we have a kiss before we start? [(Strong rejection)] No, please stop. Then, should we start with questions about our daughter? Sounds good.

First of all, our QnA questions may feel slightly different from the questions you may be used to. Because, as I said before, you know too much about us. So, you can see those basic QnA questions in our previous videos. So, these are just questions.

To be honest, I think calling it QnA is a bit too much. We’ll start doing it one-by-one. Firstly, these are questions on Bandi. Unlovely four-year-old… Our baby is also three years, 29 months old but, I think our baby is starting already, how is Bandi?

[(Cool)] I think babies around this time have similar symptoms. They become stubborn and angry with something very unpredictable. She talked… She became very talkative. It’s good if they talk a lot but… [(Correct)] When she went to the toilet and couldn’t flush it herself… Because I flushed it, she got angry.

Also, she wanted to get on the car herself but, she got angry because daddy helped her. The way she screams is different from before. It became extreme so, we can’t handle her… And I get cold sweats. But, I realized today. She doesn’t wear her puffer jacket. Yeah.

Previously, she wasn’t stubborn with the kind of clothes she wore. But, that started today. She wanted to wear her puffer jacket that didn’t look good on her and it was so small for her. She made a fuss. What was the name of the cartoon? Like ‘Danbi don’t like it!’,

She lied on the ground like this. We made an eye contact and thought this was that. So, there are moms that make their kids wear rash guards during winter and [(Found the secret)] that’s not because the moms want them too. So, if there are kids wearing sandals in winter, it’s that time…

Is what you should think. [(Remember)] So, we shouldn’t misunderstand. As they begin to talk, they become stubborn and tries to play with mom and dad. I think it’s a difficult time of life. [(Without noticing, he told the truth)] My ears bleed. Can you see?

Now that I think about it, it’s even worse to be painful mentally than being painful physically like before. [(Expecting more difficult things from raising a kid)] I bet it’ll become more difficult in the future. But it’s funny. Honestly, I shouldn’t laugh when I scold her but, the way she talks is too funny.

[When we scold her, it becomes ridiculous which makes it funny] Also since she says and reacts unexpectedly. We shouldn’t laugh but… She is naughty and makes us forget about having another baby. [(Agrees 100%)] Very… Where did you learn to do Bandi’s hair? All the different designs you do for her is pretty.

I didn’t learn it. When I was young, my mom did my hair very passionately. When you look at babies, do you know they are greatly affected by their hairstyles? If their hair is tied neatly, the babies become more gorgeous. You tie her hair well. Or it might be because Bandi is beautiful.

Our daughter is pretty and I also do my best. I don’t remember when she was younger but as she got older, when I do her hair, she looks at the mirror and [(Bandi’s reactions makes me more passionate)] says ‘This is nice?’ and ‘This is that hairstyle, right?’ and she likes it.

Also, when she goes to nursery, the teachers and the kids say ‘it’s pretty’ which makes her become more confident. So, I research them a lot. [(Hairstyles we got after studying and researching a lot)] Like foreign moms doing their baby’s hair. I refer to those and I choose something that isn’t too complex.

Hairstyle I can easily do in the morning. That’s how I choose and do it myself. I am planning to film a video on this soon. [I’ll try film it…] I’ve been planning this for months but, I still couldn’t do it. Chae-young is very handy.

– I can’t do it perfectly but… – Your mother is also very handy. – My mom is very good. – I can tell by her making Bandi’s clothes. I think I got it from my mom. I want to know why you aren’t revealing Bandi’s surname. Honestly, this is just our decision.

There’s no reason for us to reveal everything. – The world is dangerous. – Yeah. I wanted to make her name very special. Most of the time, when people hear her name, they’re like ‘is that her real name’ and ‘her name is pretty.’

Actually, that’s the name I gave when she was in the womb. But after giving birth and raising her like this, I wonder if I gave her a name that is too memorable. So, if there is any inconvenience in the future, – I would consider changing her name – Really? on my own.

The world is a scary place. In fact, since you are so happy with our Bandi, we thought you would understand even if we didn’t have to share all of her personal information, so we decided not to reveal – even her last name. – That’s right. Thank you.

When is Bandi at her prettiest and when is she at her most difficult? – When is she the prettiest? – When she sleeps. – No, – Really? For me, she is prettiest when she sleeps. She was prettiest when she just woke up in the morning.

[(Morning beauty has ups and downs)] But it’s very different every morning. There are ups and downs. When she sleeps so well that her eyes get sunken and bulging. [(Frankness)] When it’s hard, it’s hard every day these days. It’s really hard these days.

[Hell Parenting + Vacation] Parenting is really hard these days, but it’s because the vacation overlaps. But actually, this hasn’t started yet. The fact that my ugly four years old hasn’t even started yet, and that it’s this hard, makes me think that I’m really going to die next year.

[(We are waiting for your review^^)] Is it really that hard? Please leave a comment. And when she looks pretty when she does something pretty, she suddenly feels so good and feels so overwhelmed that she suddenly hugs me and says, “I love you, mom.” Right? You know what it is, right?

It happens when she acts cute. But should I say that she is cunning rather than smart? Such bad words… – Clever? – Clever. She is really clever. I think all babies are clever. Her dad scolds her a bit, so I think she’s just doing it Oh my. for her own benefit.

Rather than being clever, it’s a way to survive. Anyway, to be honest, she is pretty every time. She is the prettiest when she doesn’t give us a hard time. For difficult times, it is difficult every time. How to control yourself when you’re really angry with your baby. They seem very angry.

Well, I think this is a question that mothers naturally think about hundreds or thousands of times when raising children. Is there a way? Basically, when I get angry, I scold Bandi. You can’t do this, right? You would get scolded.

So, I think our roles are a little different, so our parenting tendencies are a bit different. So sometimes I think, “Why do you do that?” There are times when we do it with each other. Nowadays, fathers bother their daughters and things like that because they are cute.

But I hope it doesn’t bother her too much. Oh please stop. Oh please stop now. Cause she listens to this too much. Conversely, to me. Don’t do it. She said like this. Stop! Don’t do it. Don’t do it. So is this really a reflection of parents on their children?

I think this is a time when these words are very relevant. So how do you control yourself when you’re angry? In my case, there are too many times when I get too angry. In particular, there are times when I get a little angry when we have an upcoming schedule or something is delayed

Or something doesn’t go as I expected. I guess I’m very sensitive to being pressed for time. Usually, the reason why babies are throwing tantrums is [Babies who want to try everything themselves] because they say they will do everything themselves. If they can do what they want,

It is right to let them do it themselves, but as parents, we are in a hurry, so there are many cases where we try to do it quickly.

[(Once I figured it out myself, it got a little easier)] I think I can control my anger a little more if I have some time to spare. – Same thing when you fight with me. – That’s right. I think we just need some time. I’m curious what were the

Most memorable words or actions by Bandi in 2023. [Bandi has been talking a lot these days] There are so many times when I am really surprised. She may have said it in front of me, this is the most addictive thing on Chae-young’s Instagram. Don’t touch it. This is Princess Bandi.

Actually that is the best. I really burst out laughing when I saw that video. I saw it a lot. I still watch it again and again. [“You will get scolded” again after a long time] To be honest, I didn’t have many opportunities to meet other babies,

So I thought that all babies were opinionated. [Video that so many people liked and praised] but looking at the comments and the number of like hearts, I realized that being opinionated is really the most important thing. Speaking of reels, There were quite a few comments like, “How did you teach her?”

I’m still not good at rejecting things, but I don’t like that side of myself anymore, so I think I’ve always been like this to my baby so that she can clearly tell whether she hates it or likes it. So, for example, if dad is bothering her, but I hate it so much,

Then I tell her to tell her dad she doesn’t like it, so I always taught her like this. So she was like, “I don’t like it”. She says that a lot, but I guess I have to be able to say no like this in this rough world.

Anyway, that’s what I remember the most. What is your small and certain happiness these days? Small and certain happiness. These days small and certain happiness? – Shopping? – Small and certain happiness? Shopping? I don’t buy a lot of things. There are a lot of home appliance shopping deliveries coming in.

There’s been a lot of work, and I’ve bought a table too These days, it’s not just about ‘Small but certain happiness for myself’ I always enjoy… making small changes in my home, kitchen, or living space Even changing the color of my rubber gloves brings me joy Trying different brands of chopsticks…

[Small but certain happiness for myself] If I always ate pollock roe here, I try it somewhere else All these little things are my happiness When I was pregnant, I used to place decorative objet in my room But after having a baby, I cleared away all those objets That’s true

That made me realize I wasn’t doing many things I liked So now, I’m gradually putting those things into practice My small but significant happiness is free time So what do you do in your free time? When Bandi is sleeping and Chae-young allows me to go out, I watch a movie

Chae-young posted about it on Instagram once There is a local bar and restaurant – I eat delicious food with a glass of whiskey – Is that small happiness? – That’s my simple pleasure – Is it a luxurious hapiness? It’s true… I think so Do you regret quitting idol training?

Those who have experienced this industry might know it’s not easy It requires not only hard work and perseverance but also a lot of luck – Was it very tough? – It was tough I met some really bad people – Are they really harsh? – Of course I don’t know how it is now

But back then, about 10 years ago How could they say such things to 18, 19-year-olds? Looking back, [The days of my teenage years when I was hurt by adults] they hurt me with careless words Using their power to say things like, – “You haven’t lost weight?” – That’s the least I can hear

So, how did I end up quitting… So, once I was about to speak quite boldly… It’s too long to explain it in detail – I have many stuff – But do you have any regrets? Sometimes, I regretted it Because it wasn’t 100% my choice to quit I quit it due to the circumstances

Once I started working and doing part-time jobs… It was almost impossible to continue doing part-time jobs while training And if you are involved in an agency, you can’t even do part-time jobs in many cases Anyway, it was good that you quit because you met me

If I hadn’t quit, who knows what would have happened? – But because I did, I could be with Bandi… – That’s right, and with me Yes Do you have anything you want to achieve next year? No, I’m satisfied with the current life But shouldn’t we aim for some progress? Let’s raise Bandi well

[That’s a lifelong task for a couple] That’s our lifelong task Let’s have a second baby Didn’t you just say you wouldn’t? Is having a second child really your goal for next year? If we’re going to have a second child next year well… – We need to work hard, right? – It seems so

I’m so happy now Let’s maintain the current state Yeah, that’s a good idea For me, it’s not about specific goals [Desire to strike balance between work and life] I just want to be someone who can rest when it’s time to rest and work when it’s time to work

– I just thought of something – What is it? Let’s go back to being ‘Definite J’ I’ve been into that again recently I used to be a complete J [(A new one on me)] Are you the one who makes a plan? I’m a real planner! Really? I thought you were more impulsive

I like something impulsive but Well, I’m not like I go crazy if things don’t go as planned But when it comes to things I need to do, I write them down I used to be like that, ticking things off one by one Of course, I like something impulsive

After having a baby, when my plans didn’t work out, I just gave up one by one thinking, “What’s the point of planning if it’s hard to follow through?” So, gradually I became a real ‘P’ Everyone, you should set a goal for yourself That’s what should be coming out, right?

I mean having a goal is a great thing Right, it’s good to have a goal I’ve been living diligently without any specific goals Let’s set a goal, then Yeah, let’s create a concrete goal Thank you for the question Let’s set constructive goals for ourselves Chaeng, do you have a life motto?

My motto is ‘Don’t regret’ I totally agree That’s why I hardly have any regrets Even though I dedicated a lot of time to trainee life… When others were getting jobs or going to university, I gained different experience Those experiences became the foundation of my life

I always think something seemed useless experiences is actually useful On ‘Ask Anything’, my fans are asking questions like “I’m going to take a test, what if I fail?” I always tell my fans that falling is also an experience If you fail, then try again

The term “Counting cabbage” is only used for giving up “Giving up” is only a term used for counting cabbage The term “Counting cabbage” is only used for giving up “Giving up” is only a term used for counting cabbage I have a life motto too – What is it? – I am the best

Everything will work out, and I will make it work Not long after we started dating, “You’re going to marry me” He gaslighted me first. – Gaslighting… – But it really worked out. Right, it happens. If you keep telling yourself “I can do it”, and hypnotize yourself, You embody that person.

That’s how you do it. Do you recommend marriage? No, actually, I’d be able to get married, right? It’s fine to get married or not. Everything has its pros and cons. [There is no answer.] You don’t have to do it, right? If I speak like an old person, get married. [(Curious)] Why?

So, there is an advantage. There is an “advantage”. I hate this so much. [(A flood of complaints)] You pick on every single thing I say that I just said. Are you always like that? – Should we go for a couple fight vlog? – No. [Highly recommend marriage] I recommend getting married.

I don’t have much to say, but I just recommend it. I recommend it. Do it. Do it when you can. I do think that is right. Nobody is forcing anyone to do it. You have to do it if you want to. It is only up to you.

Of course, there are pros and cons in living alone. There are pros and cons in marriage. Chae-young is kind of like this. If it was the usual, when she and Bandi wakes me up from the first floor, I wouldn’t have gone down because I would’ve wanted to sleep more.

Right, that is the basics. But I go down when I hear Bandi because I miss her. Yes, right. There are those things, too. [In the end, it comes up to the difference in values!] If I didn’t get married and lived alone, I would’ve slept as much as I wanted to

[There are pros and cons in whatever choice you make!] and do whatever I wanted to. – Hang out outside. – It changes when you have a family. [We recommend marriage.] There are hardships, but there are advantages, too. Anyway, you have someone to rely on.

– You have someone on your side forever. – Right. You have no reaction at all. Since I grew up as an only child, I want to give my child a sibling, but it is too hard for me right now. You are going to have a second child, right? I hope they’re sisters.

I was really certain. I was very certain, but I am so tired these days to the point that it is held off. Because, if I was pregnant right now, I think my belly would have been continuously tight. I really think my belly would have been sharp like this.

[This is what a naughty 4-year-old is like.] To the point that I think the baby would come out covered in black. It has been very tough these days. To be honest, I do want to give her a sibling, but it has been very tough these days. But, by any chance… If it comes,

[Consistently taking care of my health] I should take good care of my health, so I am working hard in storing up nutritional supplements. I also hope they would be sisters. Since I have a sister, I like sisters. But I’d also like to have a younger brother. It feels different.

But to be honest, whatever it is, it is for the best. We think, “Whatever comes, we’ll be grateful.” Please tell us the best item you bought this year. I don’t have a lot of materialistic desires. I didn’t buy anything this year. Underwear? – Underwear. – Very comfortable underwear.

[Revealing Banpa’s secret] He can’t digest food well when it is tight around the stomach. Even though I have bought him various underwears, [(Picky)] I haven’t been able to satisfy him. [(Frustrated)] I don’t know his standards. There was one underwear that he liked.

[Banpa’s favorite underwear] He only wore that for years to the point that there are holes I contemplated on this and that, and bought one. [Finally succeeded] He was very pleased, so he has several stocked up right now. I didn’t buy anything else.

[(Deeply moved)] You liked that underwear to the point that you remember it, didn’t you? The best item I bought this year? [(Confident)] Most of the time, I shop well without failure. [(Contemplates a lot before purchasing something)] Since she looks it up very meticulously.

– Since I think a lot about it before buying it, – She looks at a lot of reviews, too. She looks it up and watched videos, too. People around me say when they see Chae-young’s YouTube channel, “How does she find this and use it?” Right. “How do you know this?”

My acquaintances say that a lot. I think about it for a long time. Of course, I do feel frustrated with myself, [A careful purchase leads to satisfaction] but it is as satisfactory the longer I think about it. I can spend carefully. So it is hard to choose one.

I am very satisfied with Bandi’s bed. – I also like the grass-cutting machine a lot. – Is that so? I don’t know. I really have a lot. [(Sad)] Wouldn’t it have been easier if there were categories? Have you thought of wanting to live in Jeju Island again? I think about it a lot.

Especially when I am mentally having a hard time. It was something I only thought about. Ten months after coming to the land here, I visited Jeju Island again for the first time. It was very nice to be back. [Missing Jeju Island] So I really wanted to go back. I looked at houses there.

– Really? – I really was serious. Jeju Island is nice. But I haven’t thought of wanting to go back. [(City person) / (Country person)] He is a city person, but I grew up in the countryside since I was a baby. I think I am optimized to the countryside life.

Also, I didn’t realize this. When I lived in Jeju Island, I realized that I lived peacefully without any concerns when I went to Jeju Island that time. Of course, there are pros in living on land. I’m not saying that I’m going to go right away. Since I have lived in Jeju Island,

I have thought a lot about wanting to live abroad. [Already excited about living abroad] I also like that. I like it a lot. Wouldn’t we be able to try living for a month or two?

My dream is to live in a house, but people around me scare me by telling me that the electricity and gas bills are no joke. Is it true? They tell me that the electric bill comes up to a million won. This is a really possible story.

There would be differences according to house size or heating method but it’s definitely possible. – It’s not for every month. – In winter? No. You don’t know this. Right. Do you know about this month? It was 400,000 won in November. Not too much. And we turn the heat on Heedong’s room.

And Heedong’s room heater is electronic boiler. So it’s more expensive. It’s similar to heat the whole house and heat small Heedong’s room. Aside from that, it was 400,000 to 500,000 won when we were living in Jeju Island. [(It depends on house size or environment!)] If it’s too big

And with strong wind, it could be 800,000 won. – Really? – Yes. And there is night electricity rule in Jeju Island. So it’s little bit different. – But there are a lot of advantages to cover this. – Right. We can prevent.

[Double curtains / wearing warm outfits / setting time for boiler / heating humidifier] Block the wind with double curtain. So we don’t heat floor too much. You saw us wearing vest or something indoors. If we wear like that, I don’t feel cold at home. And we use heating humidifier.

It’s not cold while sleeping. We sweat a lot. [(Uhm) (Well)] I… I mean… I don’t wear that much [(Natural person style)] And we don’t live like being cool in summer and being hot in winter. We just keep warmth. And we just keep cool wind in summer

So if you’re sensitive to weather condition, I think it would be little bit difficult. But it depends on houses. There is difference for outdoor wind. Anyway, it costs a lot, but there are more advantages. [(Check individual life pattern!)] – This is also type. – Right. We’re happier by this.

I dreamed of having a small fan meeting on the front yard of your house. Can we expect small fan meeting? Once, right? Flower decorating. – Right. – It’s the benefit. We can do that. Right. I’ll be together in second flower decoration. Really? No. So we voted once

– and they wanted other things. – Was it fun? We had such a good time. Really? Had meal? No. Because they took their spare time. Someone came out for the first time after giving birth. And someone came here while parents were

[(Surprised)] – taking care of baby outside because she had no option. – Really? As I remember. [Remember?] There were a lot of mothers and we had so much fun. – Also there was unmarried woman. – Really? She was unmarried but recently she got married. We’ll plan again.

I’ll do this when weather becomes warmer. Because it’s too cold. We’ll do it after it gets warm. Then let’s plan one by one. Now 2023 is passing. Shall we say something to each other, husband and wife in 2024? You did a lot in 2023 and please do more. It’s joking.

I’ll help you a lot and let’s live happily with Bandi. Okay. [(Thinking)] What do I want to say? ‘I love you’ is fine. No. [Hurt] Then why do you live with me? Son. I love you as son. Then do. ‘Let’s do our best’ is that. That’s the best, right? [Angry] Okay.

You did a great job in 2023. No? Be happier in New Year. Bless you. You say, too. 2023 has passed, with so many things. It’s so old-fashioned but I wish you have a lot of happy things in New year… – Too old, right? – No. But this is real.

Please have a lot of happy things. I wish for that. I love you. Bye. Bye. You-ha. It’s so old.

벌써 4년째 연말 큐앤에이네요🧸

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영상 찍을 게 있을까 걱정했는데…

평소와 사뭇 다른 잔잔한(?) 분위기로
조곤조곤 이야기해보았습니다💫

2023 마지막 날에 올리는 영상이라
더 특별하게 느껴지네요🫶🏻

그럼 2024 에는 더 자주 볼 수 있도록 화이팅하면서
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